Take a new startup!!!!!


As we begin a new year many of us reflect cleaning both in our external( physical)and internal (spiritual) homes. Cleaning clutter always takes a toll because of the emotional attachment that is so easily attributed to things that hold memories for us. Sometimes it is easy to release items and memories from our collection once their usefulness is complete, and other times it’s a traumatic. How can we ease this process so that the clutter doesn’t control our lives?

Perhaps looking for the rightful owner of the items here and now, we can find a useful home for things that currently are taking up precious space. A few years ago a friend of mine moved home to Switzerland, and he had to dispense of many items in his existing household. He was determined to find a home for his treasure because he literally could not take them with his as he relocated.

He would ask the following questions to friends and co-workers. Does this item belong to you? He was not inquiring as to whether or not a person lost or misplaced this item, whether it had a purpose in their current life. If it did he would give the item to the person. And to this day I remember the generosity when I use the item that he had given to me. The scent of the flower truly says on the hand of the giver. Why not ask yourself what items you currently own that can be gifted to someone else for immediate use. Are you hanging on to seldom worn clothing, used books, holiday items, furniture, or children’s playthings? Make a point of weekly find a home for some of these things So that you can release the blocked energy in your life. You will feel better for the breathing space that you create in both your outer and inner world. Then take the smell of the flowers!!!!

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I know that sometimes, it will take me a few days to find the right words to write in my blog for my readers. I think it is sometimes, just the creative process. But I love It ! That is why I know that while writing can be struggle, and still I find it giddy and same time I like the process of finding the right words.


It’s my own private journal and I am free completely when I write on my blog. Sometimes I just discribe some object in my taste and that I spill through my pen. Sometimes , I let out all my frustrations or emotions up on my key board.

Eventhough, I save my work and I never re – read or edit my writings, I just publish it, that makes me feel happy and I have got more freedom.

I asked to my neighbor, who resides near to my apartment. He has crossed sixty and leading retirement. What kind of changes you are feeling after your retirement . He said to me the following and very interesting , humorous and thoughtful lines , which I would like to share with my readers.

He started that !!!, ….

After loving my parents, my siblings, my spouse, my children and my friends, now I have started loving myself.

I just realized that I am not “Atlas” the world not resting on my shoulders.

I now stopped bargaining with vegetables, fruits and grocery ventors, after all a few rupees more not going to burn a hole in my pocket but it might help the poor fellow save for his children’ s School fees.

I pay the taxi driver without waiting for the change , the extra money might bring a smile on his face. After all he is toiling much harder for a living than me.

I stopped telling the elderly that they have already narrated that many times. After all the story makes them walk down the memory lane and relivinng the past.

I have learned that, no need to correct the people even when I know they are wrong, after all one of them making everyone perfect is not on me. Peace is more precious than perfection.

I give complements and appreciation freely and generously. After all It is a mood enhancer not only the recipient, but also for me.

I have learned not to bother about a crease or a spot on my shirt . After all, personality speaks louder than appearances.

I walked away from the people who don’t value me , after all they might not know my worth , but I know.

I remain cool down , someone plays dirty politics to out run on me in the rat race. After all, I am not a rat and neither am I in any race.

Iam learning not to be embarrassed by my emotions that makes me human.

I have learned that it’s better to drop the ego than to break a relationship. After all my ego will keep me aloof whereas with relationship I will never be alone.

I have learned to live each day as if it is the last . After all, it might be the last.

Iam doing what makes me happy, after all I am responsible for my happiness and I owe it to me.

Here I remind you all, why do we have to wait for so long, why can’t we practice this at any time and any stage

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A close bond between parents and children


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Attachment parenting style is a strong bond between parents and children. This parenting style makes for father and mother who are highly concentrated to their kids needs. Attachment parenting is a parenting style that emphasizes a good relationship building with their children.

They also being highly concerned and receptive to their kid’s needs. It is more attached with things that keep parents and kids close, like breast feeding on demand , and responding right away to the baby who cries out during sleep or play.

Attachment parenting is not one of the parenting styles developed by psychogist. It was Diana Baumrind and her successors, who studied preschoolers and found that parents fit into four set of groups.

There are four groups

Authoritative parents, authoritarian parents, permissive parents and neglected parents.