How often we are discouraged from doing what we know we are capable of doing because of negative comments and concerns from friends and family. Instead of enthusiastically stating”you can do it” you are the best person to do that, very glad that someone has finally recognized your talents, that creative idea will get you places, and other pat on the back comments.
Their little negative seeds become implanted in our subconscious mind and begin to sprout seedings of self- sabotage and disrespect for our innative capabilities. Insidious comments from well meaning supporters begin to snake their way through our Psyche until they begin to rear their ugly heads from the inside out. These alien thoughts put a strain on our self confidence and become the outcome that we never wanted in the first place. What we thought of as our million dollar idea now it is denoted to idle mental chatter. We now ask ourselves, how could I ever have thought ? I was capable of achieving that goal” I can do it” mantra is chanting , what will happen?
With a little support from our well meaning friends and family, we become resigned to the tried and true, the ordinary, the costomery and the status quo. Thoughts that are out side the norm are labelled crazy, crackpot ideas that have no practical merit. Who would ever support me? What was thinking anyway? And the self abuse goes on and on.
You are the only person who can end the negative mental bombardment. Refuse to relinquish your personal belief in a positive outcome . Listen to the naysayers, consider the well- meaning opinions and concerns and proceed in the direction of your own choosing armed with the ammunition that they have provided . A known adversary is easier to conquer than an unknown one, and they have just allowed you to be forewarned of their impending attack if you decide to proceed.
When you affirm that your greatest power is your power to choose, you honour your inborn ability to make wise, personally empowering choices. Life is what you make it. Choose for yourself and you will be the best for it .amazon.in